I hold a grudge. Sorry I do. I know that I should probably be more forgiving and let things slide, but tough. That’s not me.
I recently got a Facebook friend request from a former co-worker at a past job that I absolutely hated. It was the most miserable place I have ever worked and this person was a part of that dysfunctional culture. There was never any hesitation to toss a coworker under the bus , light a math and watch them burn.
It was two years of hell.
So no. I will not accept your friend request.